I love the expression: ‘Stop having a wishbone for a backbone!’
Just think how much potential achievement has been irrevocably lost to the world because of procrastination. Before we developed our Overcoming procrastination session for hypnosisdownloads.com, we had had hundreds of requests for a hypnotic download which would address this problem and stop procrastination from tripping people at the first hurdle.
But what exactly is procrastination?
Procrastination takes effort
Surprisingly, procrastination can actually be a lot of work. This is because there is usually a lot of ‘displacement activity’ involved. Rather than just, say, getting on with writing, I might convince myself that I need one more cup of coffee. I might then find that I’m out of milk. I then convince myself I have to go and get some. While I’m out, I may decide to get some other items. When I return, I might then decide that I need to call someone up. I talk to them. I then remember I haven’t checked my emails for a while. Finally, I might decide I really should get on with writing but now it’s getting late. So I convince myself that it will really be more practical to make a ‘fresh start’ tomorrow. So, instead of just writing, I’ve gone out, I’ve talked, I’ve wasted mental effort coming up with reasons to persuade myself why I really shouldn’t just get on with it today after all, because, as we all know, there is always tomorrow, isn’t there?
Procrastination: wasting creativity
Procrastination is partly about self-deceit. How many times have you heard people telling you they haven’t done what you asked because they were too lazy! This is rarely the case. Procrastination likes to waste your creativity. You have to be very creative to produce convincing excuses. People will tell you all kinds of reasons why they haven’t actually finished – or even started – that project yet. Don’t get me wrong, I have procrastinated with the best of them. But I estimate the amount of time I spend procrastinating has dropped by around 90% ,and I can live with procrastinating over some things occasionally as long as they are just the more trivial things!
Procrastination: short term v long term gain
Actually, procrastination is all about short-term benefit versus longer-term gain. In the short term, it may indeed be more comfortable not to write that report, even if the long-term benefit of writing that report well might just get you promoted and land you more money.
What usually happens when we procrastinate is a pattern more or less like this:
Steps to procrastination
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What a cumbersome, inefficient and laborious way to go through life.
The hypnosisdownloads.com session Overcoming procrastination seeks to get people ‘just doing it’ – and it’s already producing brilliant results, as testified by the feedback we’re getting from many reformed procrastinators.
People don’t always take procrastination seriously, and we can be very glib about our own procrastination habits, but life spans are finite and there is much to do and experience if you want to get the most out of life.
All the best
Mark





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