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		<title>By: John Hansen</title>
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		<description>I can personally identify with this.  I had a very HOT political argument with a guy on my computer bbs and it caused me to have a stroke.

I knew I was having a stroke (cold down one side)and I couldn&#039;t speak - so I immediately went to the car and my wife came out a little later.  She did not think it was serious until I passed out on the way to the hospital.  I woke up a minute later and helped her find the hospital in the darkness.  I was in the hospital for 4 days and the did all kinds of checks on me, including mri and said I had no clots but that a small artery in my cerebellum has spasmed.

I was running again with two days of getting out and we got up to two miles a day within two weeks.

The fear of having another stroke (and maybe dying) caused me great anxiety for years.  For the first 6 months - I would get stressed and have my wife stop the car and I would get out and run 1/4 to 1/2 mile just so I could relax.  I kept myself tired in those days so I could relax.

That was in 1994 and ever since then - I have avoided confrontation.  I do have disagreements occasionally but I quit before I get two excited.  My blood pressure was low when I had the stroke and it&#039;s well controlled now as I walk 2 miles many days and lift weights.  But as a hyper responder, it can shoot up very high when I get excited.

I would like to get back to being my usually easygoing friendly but sometimes not self.  I&#039;m going to order this download and see if it can help.

One doctor said you are not going to have another stroke if you have an argument with someone but I don&#039;t believe it - he didn&#039;t believe an argument was what caused the last one.  Thanks    John Hansen  majorhart@sbcglobal.net 

PS do you also have one for peripheral neuropathy.  I have drop foot on both sides (could be related to the stroke or the type 2 diabetes I have)or drinking a lot over 35 years - I only drink occasionally now, but still have extremely weak shin muscles and ankles - although I can leg press 280 pounds 30 times.  Thanks</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I can personally identify with this.  I had a very HOT political argument with a guy on my computer bbs and it caused me to have a stroke.</p>
<p>I knew I was having a stroke (cold down one side)and I couldn&#8217;t speak &#8211; so I immediately went to the car and my wife came out a little later.  She did not think it was serious until I passed out on the way to the hospital.  I woke up a minute later and helped her find the hospital in the darkness.  I was in the hospital for 4 days and the did all kinds of checks on me, including mri and said I had no clots but that a small artery in my cerebellum has spasmed.</p>
<p>I was running again with two days of getting out and we got up to two miles a day within two weeks.</p>
<p>The fear of having another stroke (and maybe dying) caused me great anxiety for years.  For the first 6 months &#8211; I would get stressed and have my wife stop the car and I would get out and run 1/4 to 1/2 mile just so I could relax.  I kept myself tired in those days so I could relax.</p>
<p>That was in 1994 and ever since then &#8211; I have avoided confrontation.  I do have disagreements occasionally but I quit before I get two excited.  My blood pressure was low when I had the stroke and it&#8217;s well controlled now as I walk 2 miles many days and lift weights.  But as a hyper responder, it can shoot up very high when I get excited.</p>
<p>I would like to get back to being my usually easygoing friendly but sometimes not self.  I&#8217;m going to order this download and see if it can help.</p>
<p>One doctor said you are not going to have another stroke if you have an argument with someone but I don&#8217;t believe it &#8211; he didn&#8217;t believe an argument was what caused the last one.  Thanks    John Hansen  <a href="mailto:majorhart@sbcglobal.net">majorhart@sbcglobal.net</a> </p>
<p>PS do you also have one for peripheral neuropathy.  I have drop foot on both sides (could be related to the stroke or the type 2 diabetes I have)or drinking a lot over 35 years &#8211; I only drink occasionally now, but still have extremely weak shin muscles and ankles &#8211; although I can leg press 280 pounds 30 times.  Thanks</p>
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