Being highly critical of other people can destroy your personal (1) and work relations. Constantly looking for faults in others, or signs of how they are doing things wrong, may be well intentioned. But when it comes to maintaining respect, liking, and the proper functioning of relationships, it’s just unworkable.
When people feel criticized they feel fundamentally attacked. And, as the new hypnosisdownloads.com session Be less critical shows, the substance of a criticism can be communicated to someone in quite ‘non-critical’ ways. And that leads to better communication and respectful relationships. But why are some people driven to be so critical of others?
The bullying perfectionist
Adopting a perfectionist attitude can actually undermine the very high standards the attitude has been adopted to attain. High standards are one thing, but demanding perfection leads to a) more disappointment and b) more negative emotional reaction from others, which can get in the way of progress. And ‘demanding’ is what spoilt and indulged children do. The new hypnosis session looks to calm this habit of being highly critical right down, so that over-criticizers can become more humane and still get results (better results!). They should find that makes a big difference in their working lives, and in their personal relationships too.
Mark
Note
(1) See John Gottman’s excellent book Why marriages succeed or fail for an eye-opening analysis of how damaging criticism is in relationships.
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